Here we go again

So it's been awhile since I have written. Today I chose to write because I'm down and sad. The X is talking to a girl-he's meeting her tonight. He drove 45 min to meet her. I have a hard time getting him to drive 10 minutes to try a new place. Where they are eating: a place we meet my family at pretty regularly and he always says he hates it. I'm gonna have a  hard time going back and I won't be able to tell my family why. I hate that our money is paying for him to take another girl out and I hate that our money is used to put gas in our truck so he can go see another girl. I need to move out ASAP. I'm hating him so much and getting so bitter towards him. I hate that it bothers me...I hate that he told her she was beautiful. He never says that to me unless I bring it up. I know he's just trying to get some tang but damn its like a knife in my heart. Plus this girl is Hispanic and has a couple of kids and dif baby daddies! What the hell?! Someday when he's serious with a girl I am going to have a REALLY hard time letting her around J. Which I shouldn't be. I'm a bitch. I've lost myself in this marriage I've been unhappy for 9-10 years and I just settled to be together. The whole time suffering and never feeling that 'click' like I'm where I belong. Now I have a baby and she's my world and I hate that I'm bringing her up in a divided house. This is not how I wanted my life to be. I'm so unhappy. I feel like so ugly and I feel like I'll never be happy. I don't trust men and I feel like no one will love me and be attracted to me. I wanted to do something to keep my mind busy but friends-Well they ignored their texts or they were busy. I hate that I don't have true close friends that I can tell everything to. I do have one god friend I can tel most to. She works with me and I love her! I live this whole life and I've done all these crazy things that I probably honestly wouldn't tell anyone but it would be nice to be able to tell some. She said she wouldn't be able to stay long so who knows when he will get home. It's an hour drive. I hope she doesn't like him but hell she's single and has two kids and hasn't been on a date in a year. He has a job and money and she needs a baby daddy so who knows.